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Build Confidence in Self

Do you need to build confidence in your self?

Does it seem like you always experience a lot of sabotaging self-talkthat goes along the lines of thinking either:

I am not good enough,
I am not attractive enough,
I am not lovable, or
I am not intelligent enough, etc.

Or may be you experience strong feelings that hold you back such as:

I don't deserve success, or
I should be punished for something

and the like.

It does not matter if you are top of your class, president of the company, have 2 PhDs, have beautiful looks or are nearly as rich as Bill Gates. I have worked with people who have these types of things in life but who still did not have confidence in themselves.

These are the people of course who try to over achieve to compensate for the awful feeling inside of themselves that some how they are inadequate. No matter how hard they try though, the feelings remain.

Many others lack of confidence in themselves however, ensures that they never get close to experiencing the type of success they would wish for themselves.

And lack of confidence in self is a terrible thing to have to bear in life. It means you never get to enjoy it. No matter how hard you work, no matter what you achieve, no matter how much everyone else admires you or what you've done or acquired. You still feel bad inside.

But it does not have to be that way: Ever, for anyone.

Why do I feel this way?

You will have noticed most likely that no matter how often and firmly you tell yourself, or hear others telling you, that you are good enough, that you can do it etc. it makes no difference as to how you feel about yourself inside.

That's because you are using your conscious mind, the rational side of your mind, to try and solve a problem that exists in your subconscious mind.

You feel inadequate because your subconscious mind has picked up some negative programming, a misunderstanding about yourself, most likely from when you were very young.

When we are young and our minds are developing, the subconscious part of our mind is very open to picking up whatever messages about ourselves that are given to us by those who look after us.

It does not take many years however for a protective wall to build up around our subconscious mind. That wall firmly protects those negative messages about how adequate we are. A wall that normally makes it very hard, if not impossible under normal circumstances, to change those early subconscious mis-perceptions.

And those negative beliefs about ourselves, once established, literally stay with us for life if we do not learn to do something about them. Meanwhile, we just get to experience life passing us by. Living in painful anxiety but trying not to show it. Never experiencing a true sense of peace and satisfaction with ourselves.

What can I do to change?

To change we need to understand what those negatives beliefs are that we have about ourselves and to replace them with realistic positive beliefs about ourselves.

In hypnosis we get to communicate directly with our subconscious minds. The very place where those negative beliefs are created and stored.

Now you are working at the level at which the problem exists. Now you can change those beliefs. Thousands have, and have gone on to lead joyful, successful confident lives. And so can you. Are you ready to change?

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